Archive for December, 2007

New Year’s Eve

Monday, December 31st, 2007

Every December millions of people begin penning their New Year’s resolutions, planning behavioral changes to make during the coming year. And everyone I know who thinks they’re human would have resolutions like weight loss and financial planning.

I’m sure couples will definitely go for the 08/08/08 date to tie the knots… hmmm I suggest they do it on 08:08:08 08/08/08, an eight, as it is for Chinese, not only portends prosperity but happiness and confidence as well.

I haven’t thought of my new year’s resolution, though. I’d say I’m so busy to think about it. Afterall, it’s not about what you will not do … it’s about what you will do this 2008.

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The day after tomorrow is the beginning of year 2008. Tonight I prepare my stuff for tomorrow’s New Year’s Eve celebration at Siloso Beach Sentosa. Everything’s new from head to toe. Got new top, pants, shoes, and bag… hmmm how about a new persona… Will I be a new me on 2008?

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I’d say that year 2007 is a good time of year for me. My lifestyles have changed and I learned to be literally independent. My previous year-ends felt like unfinished but this time seems like the end is the beginning of another phase of life. I surely have plans for year 2008. Which I think will be difficult though realistic enough for me.

Two Times You Are Mine

Friday, December 21st, 2007

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A little boy made a boat
Made it out of wood
Put it on the river
String tied the two together
But the current broke the string
And the boat drifted away

A little boy made a promise
With teardrops in his eyes
That someday he’ll reclaim the boat
And bring back the two together

And it didn’t take too long
When he saw the boat
In the window of the store
So he save all his money
And he bought the boat
And as he walked away
You could hear him say

Chorus:
Now you’re mine, mine
Two times you’re mine
Once because I made you
Twice because I bought you
Now you’re mine, mine
Two times you’re mine,
Bought once because
I Love You so

God made the man
Made it out of Love
Put it on the world of love
And love binds the two … together

But the man broke that love
And the man drifted away

God made a Promise
From His throne on high
That one day He’ll reclaim the man
And bring back the two together

And it didn’t take too long
He sent Jesus His only Son
Then Jesus crucified
On the Cross that day
And as He suffered
You could hear Him say

Chorus:
Now you’re mine, mine
Two times you’re mine
Once because I made you
Twice because I bought you
Now you’re mine, mine
Two times you’re mine,
Bought once because
I Love You so

Merry Christmas, for unto us a Child is born!

Actions Speak Louder Than Words

Sunday, December 16th, 2007

A quote from Yahoo Personals:

Actions Speak Louder Than Words by David Wygant

When you do not approach within seconds of spotting her, you might as well go home.

Most men think that they need a clever line to approach a woman. But through all my years of coaching men and women, I have found that it is not what you say that’s important, but how you approach.
Most women put more importance on visual clues to assess a man’s character. They don’t care what you say, as long as you say it without hesitation and with authority. Unfortunately, most men don’t know this, so they walk over to a woman like a wounded animal expecting to be rejected. When you approach like a wounded animal, you will be rejected every single time — no matter how clever a remark you may have.
With 80 percent of human interaction based on nonverbal body language, what is a man to do? The key to impressing her right off the bat is to be different from all the other men who are approaching her that evening.
Here a few sure-fire ways to make your approach more powerful and convincing, even if you are not sure what you are going to say:
  1. Walk with confidence. When you see a woman that you are attracted to, walk right over. Stand up straight and walk over slowly but with confidence. Make sure your chest is puffed out and your posture is looking strong and not slumped over. Keep eye contact as you approach. Do not hesitate. Most men linger in the background before they approach, then, when you finally do approach, she is quick to turn her back on you. The reason is that you did not exude confidence. Most women notice who is observing them. When you do not approach within seconds of spotting her, you might as well go home.

Read on…

Dear Santa

Sunday, December 9th, 2007

Dear Santa,

I’ve been pretty good this year, unless you count that one-day (which would have worked out fine if ‘we’ estimated the right timing). Okay, because of that I won’t be presumptuous or anything…I’ll ask just a little wish which I hope you and your elves could find it in your hearts to forego the coal and get me some hired help….

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This Too Will Pass (soon)

Sunday, December 2nd, 2007

It’s Sunday 7:15 pm, I laid on my bed and thought of the things I’ve done in the past 3days… it was great, relaxing… but then again my night began to converse with its loneliness… and I know this too will pass.

I invite you to read this thought provoking story:

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Once a king called upon all of his wise men and asked them,

" Is there a mantra or suggestion which works in every situation, in every circumstances, in every place and in every time. Something which can help me when none of you is available to advise me. Tell me is there any mantra?"

All wise men got puzzled by King’s question. One answer for all question? Something that works everywhere, in every situation? In every joy every sorrow, every defeat and every victory? They thought and thought. After a lengthy discussion, an old man suggested something which appeal to all of them. They went to king and gave him something written on paper. But the condition was that king was not to see it out of curiosity. Only in extreme danger, when the King finds himself alone and there seems to be no way, only then he’ll have to see it. The King put the papers under his Diamond ring.

After a few days, the neighbors attack the Kingdom. It was a collective surprise attack of King’s enemies. King and his army fought bravely but lost the battle. King had to fled on his horse. The enemies were following him. His horse took him  far away in Jungle. He could hear many troops of horses were following him and the noise was coming closer and closer. Suddenly the King found himself standing in the end of the road - that road was not going anywhere. Underneath there was a rocky valley thousand feet deep. If he jumped into it, he would be finished…and he could not return because it was a small road…From back the sound of enemy’s horses was approaching fast. King became restless. There seemed to be no way.

Then suddenly he saw the Diamond in his ring shining in the sun, and he remembered the message hidden in the ring. He opened the diamond and read the message. The message was very small but very great.

The message was - " This too will pass."

The King read it . Again read it. Suddenly something strike in his mind- Yes ! it too will pass. Only a few days ago, I was enjoying my kingdom. I was the mightiest of all the Kings. Yet today, the Kingdom and all his pleasure have gone. I am here trying to escape from enemies. However when those days of luxuries have gone, this day of danger too will pass. A calm come on his face. He kept standing there. The place where he was standing was full of natural beauty. He had never known that such a beautiful place was also a part of his Kingdom. The revelation of message had a great effect on him. He relaxed and forget about those following him. After a few minute he realized that the noise of the horses and the enemy coming was receding. They moved into some other part of the mountains and were not on that path.

The King was very brave. He reorganized his army and fought again. He defeated the enemy and regain his lost empire. When he returned to his empire after victory, he was received with much fan fare at the door. The whole capital was rejoicing in the victory. Everyone was in a festive mood. Flowers were being thrown on King from every house, from every corner. People were dancing and singing. For a moment King said to himself," I am one of the bravest and greatest King. It is not easy to defeat me.: With all the reception and celebration he saw an ego emerging in him.

Suddenly the Diamond of his ring flashed in the sunlight and reminded him of the message. He open it and read it again: "This too will pass"

He became silent. His face went through a total change -from the egoist he moved to a state of utter humbleness.

If this too is going to pass, it is not yours.
The defeat was not yours, the victory is not yours.
You are just a watcher. Everything passes by

We are witness of all this. We are the perceiver. Life come and goes. Happiness come and goes. Sorrow come and goes.

Now as you have read this story, just sit silently and evaluate your own life. This too will pass. Think of the moments of joy and victory in your life. Think of the moment of Sorrow and defeat. Are they permanent. They all come and pass away. Life just passes away.

There were friends in past. They all have gone.
There are friends today. They too will go.
There will be new friends tomorrow. They too will go.

There were enemies in past. They have gone.
There may be enemy in present. They too will go.
There will be new enemies tomorrow and……they too will go.

There is nothing permanent in this world. Every thing changes except the law of change. Think over it from your own perspective. You have seen all the changes. You have survived all setbacks , all defeats and all sorrows. All have passed away. If there are problems in the present, they too will pass away. Because nothing remains forever. Joy and sorrow are the two faces of the same coin. They both will pass away. Who are you in reality? Know your real face. Your face is not your true face. It will change with the time. However, there is something in you, which will not change. It will remain unchanged.  What is that unchangeable ? It is nothing but your true self.

You are just a witness of change. Experience it, understand it.

Everyday for 10-15 minutes sit in silence. Just think over the sentence, " This too will pass." Pondering over your own life will make you realize the true meaning of this sentence. Everything passes yet your real identity remains the same. That real you is your true self. To know that self is true meditation.